Astrological Reasons Behind Constant Fights Between Husband and Wife

In Vedic astrology, marriage is not just a social or emotional bond; it is a cosmic union influenced by the planetary alignment at the time of birth. While constant quarrels plague marital relations, one cannot ignore the astrological reasons that provoke conflicts. Certain planetary positions, doshas and Dasha periods can lead to misunderstandings, ego clashes and emotional attachment between partners. By understanding these astrological reasons, couples can take appropriate remedial steps and bring peace to their marriage. One of the main causes of quarrels in marriage is Manglik Dosha, which occurs when Mars is placed in the 1st, 4th, 7th, 8th or 12th house of the birth chart. Mars is the planet of aggression, fire and ego, and when it afflicts the house of marriage, it brings frequent arguments, anger problems and stubborn behaviour. If one partner is Manglik and the other is not, the mismatch of energies often results in constant conflicts if proper remedies are not taken.

Another important factor is the position and strength of Venus, the planet of love, harmony and intimacy. If Venus is weak, debilitated or afflicted by malefic planets like Saturn, Mars or Rahu, it indicates a lack of affection, romance and emotional connection in the married life. Venus governs pleasure and sensual pleasures in a relationship, and its weakness leads to coldness and detachment, which often causes daily disputes. The seventh house and its lord play a major role in determining the nature of the marital bond. If the seventh house is without benefice aspects from malefic planets like Rahu, Ketu or Saturn, it may indicate a turbulent marriage full of misunderstandings. Similarly, if the lord of the seventh house is placed in a malefic, or is fiery or retrograde, the native may struggle to maintain harmony and peace in their relationships. Rahu and Ketu, the shadow planets, are notorious for creating illusions, confusion and misunderstandings. When Rahu or Ketu affects the seventh house, the seventh house, or Venus, it can create trust issues, emotional instability and unrealistic expectations from the partner. Rahu can lead to excessive attachment or obsession, while Ketu brings detachment and cold behaviour, which can cause constant emotional conflict between the two.

The Moon, which controls the mind and emotions, also plays an important role in husband andwife problem solutions. A weak or afflicted Moon can lead to mood swings, emotional insecurity and irrational behaviour, leading to frequent fights. If one or both partners have such a Moon, they cannot support each other emotionally, resulting in frequent fights over even the smallest matters. Dasha and transit periods also play an important role in influencing the relationship. If a partner is going through a difficult planetary period like Shani Dasha, Rahu Maha Dasha, or Mangal Dasha, it can lead to increased anger, procrastination, restrictions, or impulsive behaviour. During such periods, patience is tested, and anger flares up easily, increasing the chances of frequent disagreements. Horoscope mismatch during marriage is a root cause of constant fights. If horoscope matching is not done properly or key factors like Guna Milan, Bhakut Dosha, or Nadi Dosha are ignored, it can lead to a lack of compatibility. For example, Bhakut Dosha affects emotional bonding, and Nadi Dosha affects health and childbearing issues – both of which can trigger tension and resentment in a marriage.

Ego conflicts and dominance issues arise when both partners have a strong influence from the Sun or Mars in their horoscopes. A dominant Sun can lead to a sense of superiority, while a dominant Mars encourages competitiveness and impulsive actions. Saturn’s influence on the seventh house or Venus can create a sense of emotional burden, delay in expressing emotions, or cold behaviour. While Saturn teaches patience and responsibility, its heavy energy, if unbalanced, can make relationships dull and filled with unspoken frustration. Partners may feel trapped or emotionally starved, which over time leads to resentment and verbal arguments.

Communication issues in astrology are often linked to the position of Mercury. An afflicted Mercury leads to miscommunication, harsh speech, or misunderstandings. If Mercury is placed in a malefic house or is conjunct planets like Mars or Rahu, it can create a sharp tongue, sarcasm or lack of listening, resulting in friction and conflict between partners, even over small matters. Finally, the burden of past life karma, as indicated by the Rahu-Ketu axis and the fifth or twelfth house, can be the hidden reason behind persistent marital difficulties. Sometimes couples are united by karmic relationships, not all of which are pleasant. Such relationships can seem doomed from the start, with repeated cycles of pain, blame, and unresolved emotions, until spiritual or astrological healing is done to break the pattern. Astrology provides deep insight into the reasons behind constant fights between husband and wife. By analysing the horoscope and identifying the root astrological causes, individuals can find appropriate remedies such as gemstones, mantras, donations, rituals, and spiritual practices. 

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